Well stated, and I agree with most of what you have written. But looking back over nearly 70 years of life — and many relationships of many different types — I would caution people not to underestimate the power, ot perhaps even the necessity, of physical attraction. And I will acknowledge that this may be more of a “guy thing,” but I spent 13 years in what should have been a perfect coupling — we shared the same interests, the same values and had very similar personalities. The only thing missing was, frankly, lust … and for me, that left a hole in the relationship. I would warn people, don’t commit to someone — no matter how otherwise compatible — if the idea of waking up next to him or her every morning for the rest of your life doesn’t send at least a tingle of excitement down yout spine.