Congratulations on achieving a satisfying, long term sex life ,,, at any age, sexual fulfillment is truly a gift. As I moved through young adulthood and middle age, I assumed that sexual desire would begin to ebb ... at 72, I no longer entertain that expectation.

The love of my life spends the winters with me in Hawai'i and the rest of the year he lives on the mainland. We both have several 'friends with benefits,' which allows me to have sex with a partner five or six times a week.

Frequently, at least once every couple of weeks, we will have three or more guys gathering for an informal, overnight party. Most of these friends are in their thirties and forties, and if my boyfriend is not here he will often call to check in and say "hi" to my guests.

This is not what I thought getting older would be like. And thank God for that!